You may have survived the most shocking stages of the betrayal but your journey is far from over. This is crunch time. Will you leave your pain behind and use the affair for growth, or will the affair subdue your spirit permanently?

Set up a flexible blueprint, a plan to guide you through these final stages. Choose those who can assist you with great care. Family and friends want to be helpful but are useless or worse. They often add to the problem with their "advice" which most often consists of coaching you to leave.