When a couple go into a divorce with stable finances (a budget) and equal financial information, they can make the intelligent decision each needs to start over as single people.

During the negotiations, each faces questions that often require the help of a law. Tax considerations, insurances, the division of pensions - all are matters that should be thought through carefully.

Make no mistake, the emotional ruts are still there. Good preparation does not take them away, but it does reduce the likelihood of falling in them.