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Planning Considerations of Divorcing Couples
Why is it important for you to understand the basics of divorce law?
While divorce is certainly a time of emotional turmoil, it's a time of financial upheaval as well. The financial change brought about by divorce can be particularly devastating to families with children and to older couples who have assigned the career duties to one spouse and the homemaking duties to the other.
When seeking a divorce, you should become familiar with the major topics: legal fees, marital property versus separate property, alimony, debt, retirement plans, property settlement, taxation, budgeting, and, if you have children, child custody and child support. You should also consider risk management, and, if you're older, Social Security.
By becoming knowledgeable about these areas, you can provide your attorney (if any) with a complete and accurate outline of your wishes regarding the divorce settlement, and you will be able to make an informed decision before signing your divorce agreement.
What do you need to know about legal fees?
When seeking a divorce, you'll want to consider whether a simple, amicable arrangement is likely or whether attorneys should be hired. If you wish to hire an attorney, you should note that divorce attorneys typically charge hourly rates and require you to submit retainers (lump sums) up front. Rates can vary, depending on the complexity of the case, the reputation and experience of the divorce attorney, and the geographic location.
If you're a financially dependent spouse (such as a homemaker), it's possible for a court to award sufficient legal fees and costs to enable you to retain competent counsel. Upon your submission of an appropriate motion to the court, a judge could order your spouse to subsidize your legal fees for the divorce.
You should also consider the deductibility of divorce expenses. In general, most legal fees and court costs for obtaining a divorce are considered personal expenses and aren't deductible for income tax purposes. However, you may deduct as a miscellaneous deduction on IRS Schedule A, subject to the 2 percent floor, any money paid for advice related to the tax consequences of your divorce or securing income. Specifically, deductible items include fees for advice on securing and collecting alimony and the tax consequences of property and payments received. On your legal bill, your attorney should make a reasonable allocation of the legal expenses between tax-related (deductible) and non-tax-related (nondeductible) advice.
How is property classified for divorce purposes?
Assets are divided in accordance with state law, so it makes a difference whether you live in a community property state (presently Alaska (which has an optional system), Arizona, California, Idaho, Louisiana, New Mexico, Nevada, Texas, Washington, and Wisconsin) or Puerto Rico, or an equitable division state. Within these two categories of states, property may be classified as either separate property or marital property, but again, these definitions will vary depending on your state. Therefore, it's important for you to know how your state classifies property. For example, one state may mandate that separate property consist of gifts, inheritances, and property owned prior to the marriage, and that such items will not be divided between the spouses in the event of a divorce. Another state may proclaim that all property owned by the couple is marital property, subject to division at divorce--it doesn't matter who inherited what.
What should you know about child custody, child support, and alimony?
When parents separate and divorce, one of the most emotionally charged issues involves the decision regarding who will live with the children. Determining the extent of child support, and possibly the necessity for enforcement of child support payments, is also cause for stress.
Child custody is based on a number of factors. Most judges place primary importance on the best interests of the children. Custody may be classified as physical or legal, and can be awarded to one or both parents.
Most states have child support guidelines for determining the amount of child support to be paid. Child support orders can be modified when there's a substantial change in circumstances, and most states provide a number of methods for collecting unpaid support.
Alimony is also an important topic, particularly to spouses with custody of minor children and to older homemakers. Alimony is based on one party's need and the other's ability to pay. Deciding whether a spouse should receive alimony (and, if so, how much) is based on certain criteria, which can vary from state to state.
What should you know about property division?
Property division is a complex area, encompassing such subtopics as the marital residence, debt, and retirement plans and QDROs.
It also involves a number of other areas as well, including: classification and valuation of property, hidden assets, family businesses, and structuring property settlements.
What should you know about taxation?
If you're legally separated or divorced, it's important to become familiar with the applicable tax rules regarding filing status, dependent children, alimony, and property disposition. Indeed, understanding the tax implications of your initial preferences regarding child custody and property settlement may alter or influence your final decisions.
What should you know about budgeting and finances?
During the divorce process, both spouses must determine and disclose their monthly income and expense needs. Claims for support (based on need and an evaluation of the other party's ability to pay) are based on this financial affidavit.
It's not uncommon in a marriage for one spouse to assume primary responsibility for the family budget. For some couples, bills are paid when due, but neither party tries to stick to a budget. When two households are created incident to a divorce, cash becomes tighter and it becomes necessary to develop a budget. A number of tools can be used for this purpose.
Do you need to know about risk management and Social Security?
Risk management should certainly be considered when a divorce seems likely. The selection of beneficiaries for your life insurance policy will probably be revised, and, in some cases, your health insurance coverage may terminate. Often, for example, one spouse participates in a group health insurance plan at work that provides coverage for both spouses. When a divorce occurs, coverage for the non-employee spouse may end. You need to know what your health insurance options are and how life, disability, and property insurance should factor into your divorce agreement.
Social Security may be an issue if you're an older individual seeking a divorce after a long-term marriage. Be aware that, if you've been married to your spouse for at least 10 years, you may (in certain cases) be able to qualify for Social Security benefits based on your spouse's record, even after you divorce.
What information should you gather before consulting with an attorney?
Before sitting down with an attorney to commence a divorce, go through the following list to make sure you provide all relevant information:
Obviously, you won't have all of the above information and documentation at your fingertips. Provide whatever you can. The rest can be ascertained during the divorce discovery process. You'll need to think about a few other questions as well once you've provided your attorney with the basic checklist of information. Consider the following:
Discuss these and any other questions with your attorney.
When the Florida court decides on the issue of child custody and visitation, the gender of the parents is not considered. For example, a mother will not automatically receive custody of the children just because she is the mother. The judge must only consider what is in the best interests of the child. Florida divorce law requires Shared Parental Responsibility. This means that even though the child may live with one parent, the other parent has equal say in raising the child. Each party must be consulted on the education, health, religion, and discipline of the child. And, if the parties cannot agree on these important issues, the judge will make the decisions.
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