In addition to calculating a straight child support award, the court may also award additional expenses with regard to the parties' basic child support obligations. The most common expenses that are awarded are day care and health insurance expenses. The expenses for day care and health insurance can easily inflate a child support award to approach the size of a mortgage payment.

If the parties have some dough, then the courts will also require the father/payor to pay for a share of any summer camp, and for the children's extracurricular activities. The courts will also require the payor to pay for a share of the sports related activities, dance classes, music lessons, etc. If the parties have limited economic resources, then a court most often will hold that the expenses for these activities are part of the child support award. If the parties have money, then in most cases the court will make the payor front these expenses. The lesson to be learned is that getting divorced is not cheap.

A key issue in any divorce cases is the payment of "extraordinary" expenses. In many cases the ex-wife tries to have the husband pay for many of the extracurricular activities for the children. The ex-wives try to make the husbands pay for the gymnastics, tennis lessons, horseback riding lessons, drum lessons, and cheerleading activities. The potential list of activities is endless. The bottom line is that living in New Jersey is very expensive. In most instances the basic child support only enables the wife to provide the bare "necessities" for the children. If the children wants to engage in the many extracurricular and sporting activities that are available, then quite often the ex-wife will request that the payor be responsible for these so called "extraordinary expenses."

The child support guidelines distinguish between child related expenses that included in the basic child support award, and which are classified as entertainment related. Basically child support awards and extraordinary child support does not consist of entertainment expenses for the children. Appendix IX-A, paragraph 8 of the Child Support Guidelines discussed the expenses that are included n child support awards:

The key issue in any dispute over the payment of "extraordinary expenses" is whether it is entertainment related or whether it is hard concrete expense needed to support the children. In many cases some child-related expenses represent large and variable expenses. Quite often a spouse can't afford to pay these extra expenses by herself. The key issue is whether this extra expense is to be included in the basic child support award. The party seeking payment will contend that the extra expense is not related to the children's entertainment, and that it is large and variable expense necessary to adequately support the children. The type of extraordinary expenses that are routinely considered as extra child support are private elementary or secondary education costs, special needs or gifted or disabled children expenses, tutoring expenses.

A very illustrative case is Arcardi v. Accardi, 369 N.J. Super. 75 (App. Div. 2004). Here, the father questioned the imposition of a 14.6% increase in is child support award. Mr. Accardi was a very wealthy man. The trial court ordered that he had to pay for thousands of dollars of extracurricular activities for the children. These extra activities were added to his basic child support award. Consequently, Mr. Accardi's child support award was increased by 14.6%.

On appeal, the Appellate Division reversed the case and remanded it to the trial court for a plenary hearing. The trial court imposed on the husband the obligation to pay for 100% of the parties' children's "extraordinary expenses." These expenses included gymnastics, tennis lessons, horseback riding lessons, drum lessons, and cheerleading. The husband contended in the trial court and on appeal that these expenses were not in fact "extraordinary," but rather expenses to be covered under the basic Child Support Guidelines.

The Appellate Division agreed that most of the expenses described by the plaintiff as extraordinary appeared to fall within the description of entertainment expenses and were covered by the Guidelines. However, the Appellate Division in its decision did note that the Child Support Guidelines, Appendix IX, B, line 11 provides that any extraordinary expense there are not predictable and recurring should be shared between the parties. The Appellate Division then remanded the case to the trial court for a hearing as to who would pay for the extraordinary expenses. The Accardi Court was conflicted between the concept of not classifying children's entertainment expenses as child support, and the concept that parents should share expenses that are not predictable and recurring. In summary, the Accardi case was remanded to the trial court for a hearing as to who should pay for the "extraordinary expense."

Another issue in the Accardi holding was the degree of proof that was needed as to the extraordinary expenses in order to require the payor to be responsible for his share. The custodial parent had provide a list of expenses, and some ow which were contested. The court held that this, without more, was insufficient, and it set the case down for a plenary hearing.

In my experiences the courts and the ESP panels rule on extra child support requests on a case by case basis. If a father is earning a six-figure income, then the court will most likely rule favorably on any reasonable request for extra-child support for extraordinary expenses. However, if a father is struggling to survive, or if he has started a new family, then the court will most likely rule that the extraordinary expense is covered by the basic child support award.

Yes. Another illustrative case is Caplan v. Caplan, 182 N.J. 250 (2005). Here the court directed the parties to share the "extra" expenses which includes: