Forget the magazine checklists. No single list of suspicious behaviors can tell you whether your spouse is cheating or not! That includes this one. However, over many years of helping hundreds of clients through proving or disproving their suspicions, we have found that there are some telltale things to look for.

You’ve made your decision and hired a private investigator. Now what? The best all encompassing advice we can give you is to trust your decision and let the detective do his job. Most of all, do not do anything to tip off your spouse/ex, or arouse their suspicions.

It’s a nightmare. You suspect your spouse is cheating, your life is turned upside down and you want to know the truth. Your personal and financial future hang in the balance, and you’ve wisely decided against trying to get proof yourself or by getting friends and family involved. Or perhaps you have realized your spouse or ex is exposing your children to unhealthy situations and you know you need proof.

Many people think PI s are just for adultery cases, but nothing could be further from the truth. An experienced, well-equipped investigator can gather proof of alcohol or drug abuse, exposure of children to unhealthy environments, activities or people, and even lack of proper supervision when visiting the other parent.