Affairs & Divorce: Getting Back on Your Feet:
You may have survived the most shocking stages of the betrayal but your
journey is far from over. This is crunch time. Will you leave your pain
behind and use the affair for growth, or will the affair subdue your spirit
permanently?
You have options:
1. You chose.
2. He or she chooses.
3. It's a joint decision.
4. Life chooses for you.
Although right now it sounds trite, every crisis provides an opportunity
for growth and development. Time is on your side. At best you can stay
calm, cool and collected. Set up a flexible blueprint, a plan to guide you
through these final stages. Choose those who can assist you with great
care. Family and friends want to be helpful but are useless or worse. They
often add to the problem with their "advice" which most often consists of
coaching you to leave.
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