Children & Divorce: The Different Age Stages: Birth to 18 Months (Infancy):
Trust/Physical Needs
One of the most important developmental stages that people go through in life is the developmental stage known as trust. This is one of the first things infants begin to learn. It is very important because infants are dependent on their parents, and the dependancy continues to strengthen throughout the parent-child relationship.
These bonds need to be formed in order for the children to feel a sense of physical comfort and to minimize fear about the future. The amount of time spent with the children determines the formation of bonds. It is not a given that a child will develop these very important trusting bonds with the parents, but it is very critical that the parents actively pursue establishing these bonds in order for their children to properly develop emotionally as they mature.
Tension in the Home
Children at this age are able to detect that there is some tension, but they cannot understand the reasoning behind the conflict. If tension continues the child may appear to be nervous, especially around new people. Children may become edgy and will exibit emotional outbursts frequently. They may show some delays in many types of development.
It is recommended that if a child is exposed to frequent tension, the parent should spend some time holding the child. The child needs to know that things aren't bad. If the symptoms worsen then it is time for the parent to consult a doctor.
Possible Reactions:
Uneasy stomach
Irregular eating habits
Loss of appetite
Remedy Ideas for Parents:
Maintain a normal routine
Rely on friends and family for help
Provide the child with his or her favorite toys or security items
Make sure you get your rest, so you are alert when he or she is awake
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