
Between 2 and 4 million women are annually victimized by domestic violence. Most children in homes in which domestic violence occurs witness that abuse and suffer secondary psychological effects, including aggressive behavior and depression. Male children who witness abuse are more likely to become abusers themselves as adults, creating a vicious, intergenerational cycle of violent behavior. (ABA Domestic Violence Commission)
If you need help or someone you know is experiencing or in some way involved in domestic violence please recognize that there are measures to take in order to prevent further harm. If you are a victim of violence we strongly urge you to devise a safety plan for a time of extreme emergency, and the following list of Domestic Shelters will be a great start for obtaining help and vital information.
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New York Domestic Violence Shelters:
New York State Coalition Against Domestic Violence Women's Bldg., 79 Central Ave. Albany NY 12206 (518)432-4864 Eng.(800)942-6906 Span.(800)942-6908 Equinox Domestic Violence Services 306 Central Ave. Albany NY 12206 Business #: 518-432-7885 Hotline/Crisis: 518-432-7865 Mercy House 12 St Joseph Terrace Albany NY Business #: 518-434-3531 Orleans Cnty Probation Dept. Domestic Violence Program 34 East Park St. Albion NY 14411 Business #: 716-589-5536 Hotline/Crisis: 716-589-5527 Women's Resource & Crisis Center P.O. Box 636 Amsterdam NY 12010 Business #: 518-842-6145 Hotline/Crisis: 518-842-3384 Cayuga County Action Program, Inc. Battered Women Program 65 State St. Auburn NY 13021 Business #: 315-255-1703 Hotline/Crisis: 315-253-3356 Toll Free #: (800)942-6906 YWCA Domestic Violence Program 301 North Street Batavia NY 14020 Business #: 716-343-7513 Hotline/Crisis: 716-343-7513 The NET Domestic Violence Program 108 Liberty St. Bath NY 14810 Business #: 607-776-7664 Hotline/Crisis: (800)286-3407 Toll Free #: (800)346-2211 ACCORD Corp.- Open Door 84 Schuyler St. P.O. Box 573 Belmont NY 14813 Business #: 716-268-7605 Hotline/Crisis: 716-593-5322 First Call For Help- United Way P.O. Box 550 Binghamton NY 13902 Business #: 607-729-9100 Hotline/Crisis: 607-729-9100 Toll Free #: (800)227-5353 Aegis Battered Women's Program P.O. Box 905 Morris Heights Station Bronx NY 10453 Business #: 212-733-4440 Hotline/Crisis: 212-733-4440 Edenwald -Gun Hill Neighborhood Center 1150 E. 229th St. Bronx NY 10466 Business #: 212-652-2232 Hotline/Crisis: 212-515-0366 Fordham Tremont Family Violence Crisis Service 2021 Grand Concourse 10th Fl Bronx NY 10453 Business #: 718-960-0395 Hostos Center for Women & Immigrants Rights 475 Grand Concourse, Room A159 Bronx NY 10451 Business #: 212-518-4312 Victim Services Agency- Project Oasis 2530 Grand Concourse - 7th Floor Bronx NY 10458 Business #: 212-365-9500 Hotline/Crisis: 212-577-7777 Center for Human Rights 165 Remsen St. Brooklyn NY 11201 Business #: 718-858-0066 Ctr. for the Elimination of Violence in the Family P.O. Box 200279 Brooklyn NY 11220 Business #: 718-439-4612 Hotline/Crisis: 718-439-1000 House of Mercy 1230 63rd Street Brooklyn NY 11219 Business #: 718-256-1469 Park Slope Safe Homes Project P.O. Box 429 Van Brunt Station Brooklyn NY 11215 Business #: 718-499-2151 Hotline/Crisis: 718-499-2151 Ridgewood Bushwick Senior Citizens Council 315 Wyckoff Ave.,6th Fl Brooklyn NY 11237 Business #: 718-381-9653 Victim Services Agency:Bed-Stuy Comm Office 247 Herkimer St., Room 201 Brooklyn NY 11216 Business #: 718-783-3700 Hotline/Crisis: 212-577-7777 Women's Survival Space P.O. Box 200279 Brooklyn NY 11220 Business #: 718-439-4612 Hotline/Crisis: 718-439-1000 Family Violence Prevention Project 134 W. Eagle St. Buffalo NY 14202 Business #: 716-846-6239 Haven House P.O. Box 451 Ellicott Station Buffalo NY 14205 Business #: 716-884-6002 Hotline/Crisis: 716-884-6000 Project S.A.F.E. 1550 Hertel Ave. Buffalo NY 14216 Business #: 716-832-4444 Hotline/Crisis: 716-774-2678 Toll Free #: (716)774-2188 Salvation Army Emergency Shelter 960 Main St. Buffalo NY 14202 Business #: 716-883-9800 Hotline/Crisis: 716-884-4798 Victim Witness Assistance Program 50 Delaware Ave. Buffalo NY 14202 Business #: 716-855-6860 YWCA Residence 245 North Street Buffalo NY 14201 Business #: 716-884-4761 Hotline/Crisis: 716-884-4761 Finger Lakes House of Hope 92 Saltonstall St. Canadaigua NY 14424 Business #: 716-396-1380 St. Lawrence Valley Renewal House For Victims of Family Violence P.O. Box 468 Canton NY 13617 Business #: 315-379-9845 Hotline/Crisis: 315-265-2422 Columbia-Greene Domestic Violence Program 2 Franklin Street Catskill NY 12414 Business #: 518-943-3385 Hotline/Crisis: 518-943-9211 Families Against Battering 41 W. Main St. Cobleskill NY 12043 Business #: 518-234-3581 Hotline/Crisis: 518-234-2231 Neighborhood Justice Project 147 East Second St. Corning NY 14830 Business #: 607-936-8807 Hotline/Crisis: 607-962-6774 Toll Free #: (800)346-2211 Aid to Women Victims of Violence Program-YWCA 14 Clayton Avenue Cortland NY 13045 Business #: 607-753-3639 Hotline/Crisis: 607-756-6363 Delaware Opportunities Inc. Safe Against Violence 47 Main Street Delhi NY 13753 Business #: 607-746-2992 Hotline/Crisis: 607-746-6278 End DV Program P.O. Box 115 Elizabethtown NY 12932 Business #: 518-873-9240 Hotline/Crisis: 518-873-9240 Salvation Army Safehouse P.O. Box 293 Elmira NY 14902 Business #: 607-732-0314 Hotline/Crisis: 607-732-1979 SOS Shelter, Inc. P.O. Box 393 Endicott NY 13761 Business #: 607-748-7453 Hotline/Crisis: 607-754-4340 Transition Center P.O. Box 629 Far Rockaway NY 11691 Business #: 718-327-7660 Hotline/Crisis: 718-520-8045 AMICAE,Inc. P.O. Box 23 Fredonia NY 14063 Business #: 716-672-8423 Toll Free #: (800)836-5940 Oswego County Opportunities, Inc. 233 Oneida St. Fulton NY 13069 Hotline/Crisis: 315-342-1609 Chances and Changes, Inc. P.O. Box 326 Geneseo NY 14454 Business #: 716-658-3940 Hotline/Crisis: 716-658-2660 Family Counseling Services of the Finger Lakes Inc. 671 South Exchange Street Geneva NY 14456 Business #: 315-789-2613 Hotline/Crisis: (800)695-0390 Domestic Violence Project 35 Broad St. Glens Falls NY 12801 Business #: 518-793-6212 Hotline/Crisis: 518-793-9496 Family Violence Project 113 Bleecker Street Gloversville NY 12078 Business #: 518-725-4310 Hotline/Crisis: 518-725-5300 Victim Information Bureau of Suffolk 515 Route 111 Hauppauge NY 11788 Business #: 516-360-3730 Hotline/Crisis: 516-360-3606 Nassau Co. Coalition Against Domestic Violence, Inc. 250 Fulton Ave. Mezzanine West Hempstead NY 11550 Business #: 516-572-0700 Hotline/Crisis: 516-542-0404 YWCA Hall House 1000 Cornelia Street Utica NY 13502 Business #: 315-793-0057 Hotline/Crisis: 315-797-7740 Retreat, Inc. P.O. Box 988 Wainscott NY 11975 Business #: 516-329-2200 Hotline/Crisis: 516-329-2200 Wyom Business #: 315-866-8464 Hotline/Crisis: 315-866-0458 Rape Prevention/Crisis Intervention 85 White Birchlane Indian Lake NY 12842 Business #: 518-648-5911 Toll Free #: (800)DIAL-SOS Long Island Women's Coalition, Inc. P.O. Box 183 Islip Terrace NY 11752 Business #: 516-666-7181 Hotline/Crisis: 516-666-8833 Tompkins County Task Force For Battered Women Box 164 Ithaca NY 14851 Business #: 607-277-3203 Hotline/Crisis: 607-277-5000 Allen Women's Resource Center P.O. Box 316 Rochdale Village Station Jamaica NY 11434 Business #: 718-739-6200 Hotline/Crisis: 718-739-6202 Victim Services Agency - Project Oasis 90 -17 160th St. Jamaica NY 11432 Business #: 718-291-255 Hotline/Crisis: 212-577-7777 Women Helping Women P.O. Box 3002 Jamaica NY 11431 Business #: 718-539-9111 The Salvation Army Domestic Violence Program P.O. Box 368 Jamestown NY 14701 Business #: 716-483-0830 Hotline/Crisis: 716-661-3897 Toll Free #: (800)252-8748 YWCA Alternatives to Violence 401 North Main Street Jamestown NY 14701 Business #: 716-488-2237 Hotline/Crisis: 716-484-0052 Family Domestic Violence Services UPO Box 3817 Kingston NY 12401 Business #: 914-331-7080 Hotline/Crisis: 914-338-2370 U.C. Crime Victims Assistance Program 1 Pearl Street Kingston NY 12401 Business #: 914-331-9300 Hotline/Crisis: 914-437-0020 Friencship House 90 Dona St. Lackawanna NY 14218 Business #: 716-822-1633 Hotline/Crisis: 716-826-1500 CACHE - Safe Passage Domestic Violence Pro. 63-65 S. Main St. Liberty NY 12754 Business #: 914-292-5821 Hotline/Crisis: 914-292-5700 YWCA of Lockport Alternatives to Domestic Violence P.O. Box 605 Lockport NY 14095 Business #: 716-433-6717 Hotline/Crisis: 716-433-6717 Toll Free #: (800)942-6906 Circulo de la Hispanidad/SALVA 62 West Park Avenue Long Beach NY 11561 Business #: 516-889-3831 Hotline/Crisis: 516-889-3831 Putnam/Northern Westchester Women's Center 2 Mahopac Plaze Mahopac NY 10541 Business #: 914-628-9284 Hotline/Crisis: 914-628-2166 Community Action Agency of Franklin Cnty 89 West Main St. P.O. Box 270 Malone NY 12953 Business #: 518-483-1261 Toll Free #: (800)834-9474 Genesee Valley Rural Preservation Corp. 16 Chapel St. Mt. Morris NY 14510 Business #: 716-658-4627 Lewis County Opportunities, Inc. Rt. 812 P.O. Box 111 New Bremen NY 13367 Business #: 315-376-8202 Hotline/Crisis: 315-376-4357 Henry Street Shelter P.O. Box 2 New York NY 10002 Business #: 212-475-6400 Hotline/Crisis: 212-475-6400 HRA 250 Church St. New York NY 10013 Business #: 212-274-2974 New York Asian Women's Center 39 Bowery, Box 375 New York NY 10002 Business #: 212-732-5230 Hotline/Crisis: 212-732-5230 NYC City Gay & Lesbian Anti-Violence Project 208 W. 13th St. New York NY 10011 Business #: 212-807-6761 Hotline/Crisis: 212-807-0197 Rape Intervention Program 411 W. 114th St. #6D New York NY 10025 Business #: 212-523-4728 SAKHI for South Asian Women P.O. Box 1428 Cathedral Station New York NY 10025 Business #: 212-866-6591 Sanctuary For Families P.O. Box 3344 Church Street Station New York NY 10008 Business #: 212-349-6009 Hotline/Crisis: 212-349-6009 STEPS to End Family Violence 104 East 107th St. New York NY 10029 Business #: 212-410-4200 Urban Women's Retreat P.O. Box 804 New York NY 10037 Business #: 212-690-6490 Hotline/Crisis: 212-690-6490 VACO Domestic Violence Prevention 113 Baxter St., 3rd Floor New York NY 10013 Business #: 212-343-0762 Hotline/Crisis: 212-343-0762 Victim Services 60 Lafayette Street New York NY 10007 Business #: 212-577-7707 Hotline/Crisis: 212-577-7777 Violence Intervention Program P.O. Box 136 Triboro Station New York NY 10035 Business #: 212-410-9080 Hotline/Crisis: 212-360-5090 Family Counseling Service of Orange County 21 Grand St. Newburgh NY 10940 Business #: 914-561-0301 Orange County Safe Homes Project Inc. P.O. Box 649 Newburgh NY 12551 Business #: 914-562-5365 Hotline/Crisis: 914-562-5340 Family & Children's Services Passage Program 826 Chiton Ave. Niagara Falls NY 14301 Business #: 716-285-6984 Hotline/Crisis: 716-285-6984 YWCA of the Tonawandas - Domestic Violence Program 49 Tremont St. North Tonawanda NY 14120 Business #: 716-692-5580 Hotline/Crisis: 716-692-5643 Chenango Cnty Catholic Charities Domestic Violence Program 19 Prospect St. Norwich NY 13815 Business #: 607-336-1528 Hotline/Crisis #: 607-336-336-1101 Victims of Violence 218 Liberty St. Oneida NY 13421 Business #: 315-363-0048 Hotline/Crisis: 3315-366-5000 Aid to Battered Women C/O Opportunity for Otsego, Inc. 3 West Broadway Oneonta NY 13820 Business #: 607-433-8320 Hotline/Crisis: 607-432-4855 Services to Aid Families 101 West Utica St. Oswego NY 13126 Business #: 315-342-1544 Hotline/Crisis: 315-342-1600 Victim/Witness Assistance Center Tioga County, Inc. 77 North Ave Owego NY 13827 Business #: 607-687-6866 Hotline/Crisis: 607-687-6866 STOP Domestic Violence Mental Health Assoc. 159 Margaret St. Suite 201 Plattsburgh NY 12901 Business #: 518-563-8206 Hotline/Crisis: 518-563-6904 Toll Free #: (800)942-6906 HOUT of St. Lawrence County P.O. Box 5051 Potsdam NY 13676 Business #: 315-265-2422 Hotline/Crisis: 315-265-2422 ul Nasr, Inc. P.O. Box 5058 Pourghkeepsie NY 12602 Business #: 914-454-9303 Hotline/Crisis: 914-454-9303 Grace Smith House 5 Brookside Avenue Poughkeepsie NY 12601 Business #: 914-452-7155 Hotline/Crisis: 914-471-3033 YWCA Battered Women's Service 18 Bancroft Road Poughkeepsie NY 12603 Business #: 914-454-6770 Hotline/Crisis: 914-485-5550 Alternatives for Battered Women,Inc. P.O. Box 39601 Rochester NY 14604 Business #: 716-232-7353 Hotline/Crisis: 716-232-7353 Regional Council On Aging 79 N. Clinton Ave. Rochester NY 14604 Business #: 716-454-3224 YWCA of Rochester and Monroe County 40 Bittner St. Rochester NY 14604 Hotline/Crisis: 716-546-5820 Legal Aid Society of Mid-NY, Inc. 303 W. Liberty St. Rome NY 13440 Business #: 315-336-5490 Cattarangus Community Action Domestic Violence Pr. P.O. Box 308 25 Jefferson Street Salamanca NY 14779 Business #: 716-945-1041 Hotline/Crisis: 716-945-3970 Tri-Lakes Community Center Inc. P.O. Box 589 Saranac Lake NY 12983 Business #: 518-891-3173 Domestic Violence Services 480 Broadway Lower Level 20 Saratoga Springs NY 12866 Business #: 518-583-0280 Hotline/Crisis: 518-584-8188 YWCA - Services to Families in Violence 44 Washington Ave. Schenectady NY 12305 Business #: 518-374-3394 Hotline/Crisis: 518-374-3394 Brighter Tomorrows P.O. Box 382 Shirley NY 11967 Business #: 516-395-1801 Hotline/Crisis: 516-395-1800 Rockwood 300 North Main St. Suite 301 Spring Valley NY 10977 Business #: 914-425-0112 Hotline/Crisis: 914-425-0112 Victim Services Agency - Project Oasis 75 Vanderluet Ave. Staten Island NY 10304 Business #: 718-447-5454 Hotline/Crisis: 212-577-7777 Dorothy Day House 145 West Beard Avenue Syracuse NY 13205 Business #: 315-476-0617 Hotline/Crisis: 315-474-7011 North American Indian Club P.O. Box 851 Syracuse NY 13201 Business #: 315-476-7425 Spanish Action League - Domestic Violence Program 310 Seymour St. Syracuse NY 13204 Business #: 315-475-6153 The Salvation Army, Syracuse Area Services 749 South Warren Street Syracuse NY 13202 Business #: 315-475-1688 Hotline/Crisis: 315-479-1332 Vera House P.O. Box 365 Syracuse NY 13209 Business #: 315-425-0818 Hotline/Crisis: 315-468-3260 Northern Weschester Shelter, Inc. P.O. Box 105 Thornwood NY 10594 Business #: 914-747-0828 Hotline/Crisis: 914-747-0707 Unity House Inc.- Families in Crisis Program 3215 Sixth Ave. Troy NY 12180 Business #: 518-272-5917 Hotline/Crisis: 518-272-2370 My Sister's Place, Inc. P.O. Box 337 Tuckahoe NY 10707 Business #: 914-779-3900 Hotline/Crisis: 914-969-5800 YWCA Hall House 1000 Cornelia Street Utica NY 13502 Business #: 315-793-0057 Hotline/Crisis: 315-797-7740 Retreat, Inc. P.O. Box 988 Wainscott NY 11975 Business #: 516-329-2200 Hotline/Crisis: 516-329-2200 Wyoming County Domestic Violence Project P.O. Box 354 64 N. Main St. Warsaw NY 14569 Business #: 716-786-2010 Hotline/Crisis: 716-786-3300 Jefferson County Women's Center 120 Arcade St. Watertown NY 13601 Business #: 315-782-1823 Hotline/Crisis: 315-782-1855 Neighborhood Justic Project P.O. Box 366 111 9th St. Watkinsglen NY 14891 Business #: 607-535-4757 Hotline/Crisis: 607-535-4757 Family Violence Task Force P.O. Box 521 Wellsville NY 14895 Business #: 716-268-7605 Hotline/Crisis: 716-593-5322 Hampton Council of Churches -Family Counseling P.O. Box 1348 Westhampton Beach NY 11978 Business #: 516-288-1954 Abused Spouse Assistance Services MH Assoc. of Westchester 29 Sterling Avenue White Plains NY 10606 Business #: 914-949-1212 Hotline/Crisis: 914-997-1010 Westhab, Inc.- Domestic Violence Program 163 Highland Ave. Yonkers NY 10705 Business #: 914-968-0747