yeah, I mean if you have a some support system and are willing to cut it loose to save yourself - do you have kids with him and are you working? That makes a big difference in the choice to stay in the home or to get out....I had nowhere to go, no family that would help me and two kids, no income. If it's just you and you have a job and some family or friends who understand and you can lean on while you go through the initial separation, you don't have to go to the extremes to protect yourself. He needs help that it seems he doensnt want from you or the marriage. 1/2 the marital property is yours, including the home, so when it's sold you'll hopefully get some equity. You can ask for that right away if you are going to file for divorce so you can get some money to get a place to live.
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Re: he says I have to go