| Maury |
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| 08/04/08 11:08 PM |
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Re: Living in a nightmare
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This is just an observation, but it certainly appears from your posts that you elieve because you are the mother you are in a superior position to be granted custody of the children and that is the way it should be. You will have to work on how you present your arguments since that is not a valid belief or statement legally speaking. Certainly, if you believe based on articulable facts that it is in the best inetrests of the children for you to hav primary custody,you should argue that point. However the critical issue is each parents ability to care for the children. This certainly makes relevant how he hendles them including anger issues, discipline, past caretaking etc... However, the fact that you are mom and he is dad is not an argument alone.
In short, your presentation is lacking, at least in this forum, which is why you have recieved a good does of posts that point out that fact. The fact that you are Christian and he is not, is equally unconvincing. It relates little to ability to parent.
Take these posts as an idea of the arguments you will face in court.