| BeckaLeigh |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 09/02/08 06:15 PM |
Re: Living in a nightmare
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All right, if someone is coming at you to hit you or to cause you bodily harm, regardless of their size, are you going to block the move and then stand there and wait for the next one to land?? No sane person does that. And just because he is bigger doesn't mean that he didn't fear her. I understand where you are coming from, I really do. But, when he pushed her down, it was self-defense on her part. Nor do I believe that she stated all that happened. Therfore, I don't believe that his wanting the kids and house were a legal maneuver. There are just as many men out there who want their kids as there are women. She wanted it all and didn't get it for a reason. So, why is it ok for her to want them, but not him? People think men do all the DV/abuse, don't want their kids, etc.... while just as many women do the same. But, there is a great number of men who raise their kids, just as well as any woman.
The problem as I see it, and I could be wrong, but I doubt it in this case, is that she didn't want out of the marriage. Once she saw he didn't want to stay in it, she wanted to hurt him any way she could and tried. When it backfired, then it was poor little me.