Well, if he's just discovered he's bi-polar, he can start medication. Only you can say what you "should" do, but IMHO, you should wait it out to see if the medication helps. Doesn't mean you need to live together during this time and go through any more of the emotional roller coaster. But you can try another letter letting him know that you'll support him in getting help with this and maybe you two can work things out once he gets his bi-polar condition under control through medication and counseling, but that in the meantime, you feel the two of you should remain separate to allow both of you to heal. This way you're not shutting down the relationship and giving him any reason to spiral downward, but giving him hope, and giving the both of you a chance.
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