I wanted to add... If you decide to leave, do a little work first. Do you have access to the mail? Try to get copies of his recent bank statements or at least write down the names of the banks, the account numbers and the balances. Same goes for any 401k or retirement accounts.Get a copy of his paycheck stub if you can and copies of your last few years tax returns. Write down the year, make and model of each of your vehicles. Make a list of personal property and furnishings, etc. When you can get to an attorney,these items will be invaluable in seeing that you get your fair share. Thanks.
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