I appreciate what you stated BeachBabe but I think parents need to be more accountable for bringing children in the world. Children needs more than a paycheck and if you have children, then you should now that! I am pushing for strict laws in my state against parents that do this and if they can't be parents, then they need to be in jail! You sound like you are a woman that does not have children and started having my children at 29, and I never gave advice to parents about children not having any of my own! And what it will mean by suing for abandonment is that my children will know that their mom stuck up for them. Too bad more children do not have this kind of parent! And I can't interfere with a relationship that does not exist. If he does not take the time to see his children, then me as the custodial parent have the right to discern whether he is using speaking to them as a way to harass me because if he really wanted to know how and what they are doing, he could see them. I do not have to give him a reporting of what they are doing. I refuse to do that! I am their mom, I am handling my responsibility and that is all I have to do!
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Re: Divorced and still experiencing emotional abuse