| AloneInTheDark |
| (member) |
| 11/30/09 06:58 PM |
Re: Abusive/of course nice when needed.....
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[quote]The most scary thing is, how can you trust somebody again, when you have trusted somebody so deeply from your heart and soul and got hurt so badly. How can you know what other person says, promises is the honest thing and will be there forever. Will our life be all about trial and error? [/quote]
Good question. Will the next person do the same thing as the last or something equally as hurtful but different?
I read this board and wonder why with all the men I read about abusing their wives, why does mine want a divorce when I didnt do anything like that? I guess I just have to accept that I couldnt give her what she wanted. The 18 years we were together back so she could have sex with as many men as she felt like she wanted to when she felt like it.
So how do we learn to trust again after that many years of trusting and believing in someone just to realize that they wants to be single and have you help pay for their single life using the kids for CS even. That your spouse could not be trusted any more and nothing you could for her would even make her attempt to repair the damage with you she did to your marriage?
I guess time is the only answer.