| myheart |
| (enthusiast) |
| 01/23/10 12:15 PM |
Re: too late for love?
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Yep, you are so right, their this nice behaviour was attracting to us. Mine during dating always said oh he can't wait to show me off to his rich friends, what a wonderful wife he has, later I found out I was his trophy wife, but my use in his life was just outside of the house, when go to parties, he would stay by me, and touch me, or put his arms around my shoulder, eat with me, bring me drink etc.., to show people she is my wife and we are very LOVING couple, but as soon as we enter the house, he is like, doesn't know me.... I would look forward to go to parties so I can recieve his affection, how sick that is???He stayed married until he found my use in his life, as soon as I asked for a happy harmonious domestic life, it was too much for him, because it takes work and patience and lots of adjutment, which he truly is not capable of.... He can't adjust period, everything has to happene xactly the way he wants, plus reserved ot blow up anytime for any reason. I loved him so asked him to go for counseling, which obviously refused, there is nothing wrong with him.
As soon as he knew I am checking about him with his family members, my checking was what can I do to make him more happy, why is he always so angry, tried to udnerstand him, then I was told how he abused his first wife, even freinds told me, his first wife will come with him to parties and stick by him, but never say a word, she was a pretty thing on his side..
What I have found out from others like us (left behind) very striking similarties, in behaviour, personalities and eventaul actions, regarding what do they at home, in private, in front of people is like reading a book....