I'm stuck with an over-bearing,controlling and abusive man. Everything is in his name, including the bank account. Everything. He is trying to turn the kids against me. They would "throw mama from the train". We dont have a land line phone, just a cell. I'm not allowed to use it. Or his car. Or his money. My name isnt even on the lease to the apt. we live in. I dont work and havent worked in a long time. I'm just an uneducated house wife/stay at home mom. I've got no job skills. I know that with no place to go, no court in their right mind would let me have my kids. He works full-time and doesnt have time for the kids. I am and always have been their primary care giver. I have had 2 OPs on him already. He used to hit me. Now he just abuses me mentally. I get stuck at home with the kids everyday, no car and no phone. He makes sure that I dont get the chance to visit with anyone, except my kids. He wont take me any place. If I do get to go some place, I have to show date and time stamped receipts and people have to be able to verify my where abouts. I dont have any family to speak of. I want to get a divorce but I dont want him to keep the kids. I dont know what to do. Please help!
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14 yrs of abuse