If it was the other way around, she would most def want a modification to up it, she makes comments all the time so I wouldn't put it past her. I know it could be worse, I know there are lots of people who are paying more, for more years, even lifetimes. I feel for these people, and despite my posts, I get along with his ex quite well. She is very nice to me and approves of our marraige, knowing that I am good for him and their son. We invited her to dinner when we got married and she declined very politely saying it was "my night". Believe me, I keep all this to myself and will never let on how I feel about this to her.
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