| gr8Dad |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 11/08/11 01:30 PM |
Re: Alimony and a Yacht
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"I am not prepared to relinquish my entire half of the ownership of the house. I am however willing to negotiate the equitable distribution of the house."
Sounds reasonable.
"The reason I ask is I am not sure about relinquishing alimony or child support will fly with the judge and I want to make sure what we give him, he will accept."
A VERY valid point. If he gives up X or Y in exchange for alimony or child support, and then the judge ORDERS alimony, he gets screwed (which, honestly, I think you are trying to do anyway)
"Your proposal didn't mention how much you expected to receive in rent for the house. If it's something I can't afford, then it wouldn't work anyway."
Another reasonable request. You want him to agree to give you CONCRETE items and amounts, while you offer possibly illegal transactions and VAGUE rental amounts.