| Nick51 |
| (recently joined) |
| 07/10/08 02:33 PM |
What to say to your kids
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I am finding it very challenging to know what to say to my kids as I cntinue to try to take the "moral high road".
My wife cheated on me and almost immediately, 5 days after I moved out supposedly to work on our marriage, loverboy was sleeping at my house on a regular basis. I have four girls 12,9 and 7 yr old twins. My wife continues to tell my kids that he is just a friend and that we are divorcing because Mummy and Daddy were fighting all the time.
I feel strongly that I do not want to protray their mother as a liar - she will be their mother for ever - but it kills me that they are being told these lies.
Any ideas for a compromise on what I can say to my girls when they are with me?