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I have to agree. My H has always had to fight tooth and nail to get his kids. CP doesn't want him to have anything to do with them at all, just pay his support. We didn't even know where they were for 3 years. That was he!! for him, so look at it in a positive light instead of the negatives. Children cost money and sometimes unexpected, and thats whether they are in divorced homes or not. And I haven't read everything you have posted, but let me give you a little bit of advice from both a SM & CP, don't get caught up in the amount of CS that goes to "her". Its for the kids regardless of whether it is going to them or not, he is doing his part and no one can ever say different. I see too many the are always trying to find out how to get by with this or that, and its not worth the effort and time that it takes. |