| hessie30 |
| (recently joined) |
| 11/14/09 11:33 AM |
Re: Incarceration = NO CS order, not fair to our kid
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Our son is fine with all of it and pretty much knows how his dad is. He doesn't know he back in jail because until I knew something more concrete to tell him I don't think it would be beneficial in any way for son to now that. It would not be suprising to him either. He has no contact with dad and seems to be fine with that because he knows he could be caught up in some of his dad's crap if he is around him. He says he has no desire to talk to him or see him and he's now old enough and has seen enough to make those decisions. Son knows his dad is into drugs and alcohol amongst his other various activities. I do work full-time and go to school full-time. I will finish my associate next fall then onto my bachelors. We have been seperated 1.5 years. Our son is going blind in one eye so I also have 2 insurances on him since we see so amny specialists about his eye disease. He had cataract surgery this past summer and is doing good. It's PURE INSANITY contiuing to try to help someone who obviously doesn't want it. In the end I really believe now he likes that kind of lifestyle. His DOC is crack amongst any other drugs available at the time. It's really a sad situtation for all. His family alos has no contact with him because of his lifestyle and choices. He just got back in touch with his brother since he went to jail and the rest of them don't want him to have their addresses. He is in jail in a state where son and I are his only family and he has no friends except drug/no good friends and even they are no where to be found.