| merlot36 |
| (newbie) |
| 11/15/09 01:11 PM |
Re: Lunch Money
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Yeah..I know..Is a freaking Catholic school..Everything is expensive..Is ridiculous...I have another issue that has come up...
Becuae the children wear uniform.My x husbnad has started this little game..of not returning the school clothes unless. I send him any casual clothes the kids may have come to my house with..Now this is the kicker...
I got an email..Where he asked for several items..I replied and informed him that I too needed my items. He demanded that I drop off his things on his porch and I expected my things to be on his porch at the time of drop off..When I got there there was nothing. Still I dropped off his things. One of the items that I needed was a pair of school shoes as I only have one pair in my household and my x has his own pair in his...This item was never dropped off until 10am on the day my son had to go to school. He went to school without his complete uniform.
I get a second email from x requesting halloween clothes from his house that the kids had left here in addition to other items in the body of the email he says that he knows that I will need the kids uniform for the week. therefore he will not return the uniform until I gather all his items and return. I informed him that he had still not given me the courtesy of returning any items from his first email and that thses items were his and I would have not any problem returning but why is he using the kids uniforms as collateral and threating not to return them unless I complied...
Well to make a long story short. The childrens uniform was not returned. On the morning of..I text him and asked why did he not dropped off the uniform. He text back claiming that the uniform was on his porch all day and why did I not pick it up. Never did he mentioned any of this to me...It is was now 709AM I am getting myself together trying to get the kids together to get to school on time...I kept texting him to understand that I am by myself I could not possibly leave my house and go get the uniform.He lives with his girlfriend (no kids)why did he not text me the day before or dropped off the clothes like I had on his porch.....
7:30AM came I ended up sending my daughter to school with an old uniform and holding my son back until I was able to pick up the uniform from his house.. mine you the uniform was dirty when I picked up. My son ended up going to school with a dirty uniform and he was late....
This back and forth with uniform has become a nightmare.
Today is Sunday..I expected that after all this he would of had the courtesy to send the uniforms in the kids backpack. Like I send them. I currently have no uniform for tomorrow...Right now I do not want to engage in a conflict with this individual... Is there anyway I can ask a judge that this manipulation needs to stop...
We are both suppose to provide uniforms for the kids. Yet he refuses to return what belongs to my household in a timely manner. creating havoc in the morning of school..
Advice please