Without you knowing the full story, I don't think you can preach about priorities. MY family is also a priority, so there must be some balance. We were just there to see his son 15 days ago....like I said ...even with all the circumstances, my husband has still paid every bit of his CS and made as much of the pareting time as he has been able to do. He's going again in a month, so that is not the issue. However, we will not completely neglect my family to be with his. It's hard to make judgements about someone's priorities by simply reading a few messages on board. I was simply wanting to know someone's opinion about whether it was common to have CS raised because of pareting time not taken. His lawyer called this afternoon and disagrees with you about the ex prevailing by the way. I know I sound defensive and that's because I am...you cannot be in 3 places at one time. She created this situation and we are doing our BEST to work within it.
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Re: Modification of child support order