| almostheaven |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 08/11/10 08:28 AM |
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Exactly...
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>>>>>If you don't want to go into court, then the only way to pay less is for her to refund some of the support back to you. Do NOT lower your payments without a court order in place.
If she gets mad at you later and decides to get back at you for something (could be 5 or 10 years down the line), she can always claim you're in arrears, and you couldn't prove otherwise since you technically paid less. But if you pay the full amount and she sends you back a portion, then you have the proof that you did actually pay it all.