| Debi |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 08/14/10 03:08 PM |
Re: My ex's husband is forcing cs wtf?
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I agree with DeeCan. 200 in HI is peanuts. You have to understand it doesn't matter if he's pushing her (and she might just be saying that) and she shouldn't have to give you a list OR ask for money. You say her husband isn't supporting them....but if they live in his home and his money goes to buy the food he is paying money to support them. 200 a month isn't doing it and even if you add another 200 for her portion of the support 400 isn't supporting them. 4 days a month at your mothers house isn't taking much of a load off.
As for the other stuff mentioned....since the gun incident didn't happen while your kids were there you have even less chance using it in a custody case.
When she files the papers she will get CS. I'd start looking at a state caculator now so you can figure out about how much you'll be paying. There wonh't be any arguments ata CS hearing it will be......Dad makes this much.....Mon makes this much....Dad has the kids this often....Mom has the kids that often......Dad you will be paying XXXXX amount. Period.They will not listen to why you shouldn't have to pay, They will probably not care if the kids spend time at your mom's. If they do it will probably not decrease support. I get that you don't like the new situation but those are the facts.