| Goodmom |
| (Pooh-Bah) |
| 12/23/10 08:16 PM |
Re: Child Support Modification?
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[quote]You do understand the difference between cheating on a person with whom you are in a committed relationship, and dating/sleeping with a person who is only married to a person because they can't afford to severe the state paperwork. [/quote]
As long as he is married, he is in a committed relationship. Hence the reason why I don't date married men, separated or not.
It doesn't take 12 YEARS to obtain a divorce unless one really doesn't want one.
The OP is living in a glass house and is throwing stones. For one thing, she didn't even know how long her married boyfriend was separated before she had a kid with him.
While what the maybe stbx (who knows if he actually wants to get a divorce, he could just be lying to the OP) did was wrong, it doesn't change the fact that he is still a married man. And if he really wanted the divorce, he would have done everything in his power to get one. Including learning about how to do it Pro Se.
Second, he's separated from someone who has power of attorney and he doesn't bother to check his credit report? How stupid is that? And the OP is sitting here complaining about how the maybe stbx opened credit in his name. Well, he could have taken care of that long ago with a simple credit check.