| KoalaGirl |
| (recently joined) |
| 01/09/11 08:06 AM |
Re: Washington State - new children of NCP
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It's not a loss in my career...it's the effect of the economy...the same as why he's sometimes not working. Why is it different for me and not him?
I could have asked for a modification about 5 years ago and his c/s would have gone up to $750 a month (had the papers drawn up to do so). I chose not to because I was trying to do the right thing because at the time, I was making good money and the increase would have made him incredibly angry and so I made the ethical decision NOT to increase it on him.
Now, the kids are older, my income has been reduced and I am struggling at making ends meet but it's unethical for me to ask for a change in c/s? Wow.
I didn't see HIM running to c/s enforcement asking for the change in modificaton when he started making almost twice what he declared on our 2003 order.