| tngrl |
| (recently joined) |
| 09/03/06 06:22 PM |
Re: divorce filed husband is living with woman
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That is the one of the things that kept me there all these years,other than the fact that I truely loved him was I could not stand the thought of my kids having to deal with their father alone without someone there to watch out for them. I knew that he would get some type of visitation. I filed for divorce a couple of years ago and he begged me back saying he promised he would never again ask me for a divorce. His attorney had found out about him shooting the dog, so I think it was a set up. I think he told my husband,she has you over a barrel, you need to do whatever to get her back, go to counseling and AA and then refile later when you will not look so bad for the courts. It was the happiest time of our marriage. Then out of no where he said that he wasn't in love with me anymore. He moved out the following week. Both of the kids said that the whole reconciliation was an act on his part and that if it was possible for him to win an Emmy for his performance he would surely win. I live away from family and his family lives here. They have also turned their back and don't even call the kids to see how they are doing. We had out first grandchild 2 months after he left and he has not seen her. I have grieved so much, then I will get mad, then back to grieving. I suspected there was someone but didn't have it confirmed until last week. It is hard knowing for a fact.
HE makes about $53000.00 a year and I only worked one full time job in retail for 5 years(this was about 8 years ago).
I was also going to al-anon and finding out who I was. I was happy and loved being around people. He got mad and said that if I didn't stop going to AL-Anon and quit work that he was getting a divorce. Like a fool for the sake of my marriage and my family, I quit. The most I have ever made in a year was 10,000. How much alimony do you think I may be able to get?