well, first counseling not an issue. when there was still a chance at saving this, he refused... now forget it... second, i had hoped that if there was some legal thing we would have a , for lack of better words, outline for living in this situation. third, i would even consider, divorce and still sharing living expenses and parenting....but yet have my freedom to come and go as i please... maybe even some forced mediation that would make him try to deal on a civil basis.. he is not physically abusive but he knows how to push my buttons and make my life hell
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Re: Dont know where to start