| javajunkiee |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 04/26/09 10:53 AM |
Re: Newly separated, still living together
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By setting you up I mean that the more time he has before the divorce, the more time he could have to change the outcome of the divorce. Things like playing father of the year where before he couldn't remember the kids names. Suddenly spending less/more money, removing paperwork from the house. Putting property in others names, etc, etc.
Things that, once accomplished, limit your ability to receive an equitable settlement.
Many a spouse has received the "I'm so confused, just give me time" line from their wife/husband, only to find out that what they were working on wasn't whether they wanted to keep the marriage, but how to get out of it with as much of everything as possible.