| finz |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 10/15/11 05:34 PM |
Re: How big a consideration is this really in court?
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Not that it's any of my business, but are you planning on moving in with a purely platonic male friend or do you have a romantic relationship in mind ?
My disclaimer: I'm not a fan of living together. I don't think everyone who does that is on the hell express, but I do think it is a HUGE mistake to move in together when it is a new relationship. I think it's an even bigger issue when there are kids involved and they are at impressionable ages (like 10,10,13,and 13)
I don't think that any of it is your sbtx f-i-l's business. I think he should get to spend time with the kids during your stx's parenting time, if f-i-l doesn't totally alienate stbx with the custody crap he is filing now.
I think it would be a better lesson for your kids to stand on your own financially for awhile and date, if you want to.....but put off the living together stuff until you are sure the kids have recovered from the divorce and to see if a new relationship has any staying power.
In your case, that might also have the benficial side effect of letting the ir out of f-i-l's balloon.