| Debi |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 08/16/11 08:47 PM |
Re: i think im going to lose..
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"im a wonderful father i just had some things in my life that would come up and i couldnt afford to go see her. But i called and emailed my ex to ask for pictures and to videos."
Ok, i can accept that because my daughter has a father who isn't around very much. He lives in another state and he now drives truck. I know he loves her, and he does support her faithfully, he tries to keep in contact but at 3 she's not a huge phone person. I've done everything to try to facilitate a relationship including arranging my vacation to take her to visit his parents on a schedule he said would work for him. (but he never showed). He's seen her 4 times in her life and she will be 4yo in 6 weeks. He loves her, he's not a bad guy, as a matter of fact he's a pretty decent guy.
BUT........if he all of a sudden decided to move here after 4 years and then tried to block ME from moving away with the family I've built (for what I'm guessing is a better life because they aren't going to get assistance for at least 6 months in another state) you can bet your @ss I wouldn't take it lying down. I will move heaven and earth for my kids, (all of them) and I will do almost anything to be sure my daughter knows her daddy loves her and make sure they have a relationship but I wouldn't let someone who doesn't know that he doesn't get to choose WHEN he becomes a dad (ie several years AFTER the child is born) run my life.