ssmom79
(Carpal \'Tunnel)
08/22/11 09:32 AM
Re: Ex being difficult about extracurriculars

I really think Debi summed it up for you:

1)You keep her every Friday and make sure she gets to all practices and "sacrifice" to do that, because that's what parents do and let him pick her up after on his weekends.

2) You ignore the fact that he may not get her there and let whatever happens, happen or

3) you use YAH's suggestion and re-adjust parenting times to be sure your daughter gets where she needs to be.
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I take my SD to ALL extracurricular activities and if BM gets involved I look at it as a blessing. It's not 'fair' to me but it is fair to my SD. Sometimes you have to look past the fact that what you do for your daughter is also a benefit to your ex.



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