| onmyown_36 |
| (member) |
| 11/21/11 07:22 AM |
Re: Thanksgiving and custody
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It is 5 hours each way and I usually meet ex 1/2 way.
I am so torn between the two decisions...as I sit here and contemplate emailing ex and saying screw it I'm doing the driving. But hATE the door mat maipulated feeling it gives me. But I will be a nervous wreck the whole time son is on the road. And Yes, 2 reasons were stated here... one is if he breaks down on this end of the state. I'll end up going after him anyway and two he is on MY insurance (that recently raised due to other son getting in a wreck) so while son would pay any increases that affects my insurance "history" for the future even after they are moved on. So if he hits someone I get screwed.
He has been driving some over the last 1 1/2 years but not much and just got his own car in the last 3 months. Hes only driven it locally. He mad THIS drive once in his life. and I know he needs the experience but I don't know about THIS weekend as stated earlier. I've been driving for almost 30 years and I hate driving this weekend.
He owns the vehicle.