| crumb |
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| 02/28/12 04:17 PM |
Re: changing custody
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Clarify:
- Who gets which Holiday and that the holiday takes precedence over normal visitation.
- Who has final decision-making power over medical decisions, such as medication and other treatment.
- How much lead time is required before a change in schedule is needed, how the request is made, and how make up time is decided on.
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1.The holidays are done on a yearly basis. This year is my turn to have her for all the holidays. The decree currently states I get my daughter at 6pm the day she gets out of school for the Easter vacation. So that would be Friday and would go through the following week to Sunday. Earlier I think I had my facts mixed up. They go on their trip the week before and we are counting it as their one weekend a month.
Since now it is 'their' weekend again for the new month they want her on friday and saturday to have a birthday party but that will be the time when I have her as part of the CO. She says she will bring her by on sunday morning.
2. The document says we have joint legal and joint physical.
3. It doesn't talk about lead time or how a request is made or make up time. It does say no time will be made up for holidays.
I don't know if the document he had me sign has been approved by a judge or not. He gave me the document and since it was basically what we were doing anyway I signed it. It was written by his lawyer. The only real thing it changed was his child support. Looking at the document now it only has a stamp on it saying 'Filed'. There is no signature by a judge. What does this mean?