SRS
(Pooh-Bah)
05/05/12 07:02 AM
Re: Right of First Refusal

I don't think I'd fight this one. If summer at Dad's sucks because they are in daycare, that is Dad's deal. BTDT. That is on him.

You must be on the Emergency Contact list, the pick up list, and the camp must know about the medical issues. My kids Dad is on the pick up list and the EC list. He moved 70 miles away, but I thought it would be respectful to leave him on the list. He likes it, but had me include a note asking that he not be called because it bothers him. My parents and BFF are also listed as contacts. (What kid wants to stay at school if he throws up and they can't reach Mom?) Just contact the director with a copy of the CO.

Don't pick them up, however, let them spend time with Dad.

You can spend the time relaxing. Making your home gorgeous, getting your nails done, whatever gets neglected when you have the kiddos.

ETA: The camp my kiddos went to does suck, btw. No activities other than watching movies. 10 kids ranging from Kindergarten to 5th grade. But, when they are with me I don't send them to that camp. That is on him.



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