| elliesmom |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 05/07/12 02:47 PM |
Re: Right of First Refusal
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In most cases I would agree, but I think a gf is no different than any other kind of friend. And I had friends listed before DH on DD6's preschool forms because I knew - he COULD NOT be of any help. He wouldn't be able to leave work EVER. Nor would he know where I was. But my BFF - didn't work, pretty much knew where I was most days and would pick up my kids in a heartbeat. And vice versa.
And of course when DH and I were dating we felt it was entirely appropriate - partly because we were afraid she would pull shenanigans, but mostly because she was not in a position to do anything helpful. She was 8-10 states away.