| almostheaven |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 05/07/06 08:30 PM |
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Re: You're forgetting...
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They've been apart quite some time for him to still be coming back seeking sex...whether or not he'd end the support...WHICH BTW, the court would ORDER if he didn't do it voluntarily. It's good that he doesn't need to be ordered, but seeking sex, whether that hinges on it or not, after separated and intending to go their own way...something's wrong with that.
You would have showed up then stood and watched and not offered help? Somehow I don't take you as that type of person. IE: You go to dinner at your mom's house. Do you let her do her own dishes in her own house, that you will never own, or offer to help since you are there and see her working? Add to that, you left the kids with her to watch while you went out on a date or whatever, then stop back by to pick them up. She's doing the dishes that your kids dirtied up. You paid her for sitting. But now...do you stand there and lean against the counter and watch while she does the dishes or grab a dish towel and start drying?