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| 06/04/07 05:56 PM |
Re: this is just WAY too stressing...
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Try to compartmentalize everything. Sounds cold. But you can't think about divorce 24/7. Block a certain amount of time and give it no more. I am pushing for quick in my case, but reality tells me I need to be more patient as this is going to take a lot of time.
Also rest, eat right, and exercise. I found that exercise makes the blues/stress/depression go away.
Good luck.
Be careful with the lawyers, they are expensive. Be up front with your finances and tell them not to do anything you can't pay for. Ask for billing for every service rendered as you need to keep strict tabs on your money. I have already shelled out 6,500 and all I have thus far is a complaint and an answer. Tell the lawyer you want to do everything humanly possible yourself. I am and have still paid that much. Wish I would have bought my daughter a car as that would really help out when I am gone. Going to do it anyway.