| Renee |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 06/23/07 11:12 PM |
Re: Friendship in need, based on lies? - WWYD
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She is not a friend in the true sense of the word. A real, long-lasting friendship is based on trust, honesty and respect, and it goes both ways. So while you were trusting her with whatever details of your life, your marriage (?), and your wife(?), she was deliberately and intentionally withholding vital information from you. She isn't looking for a simple friendship or she wouldn't have withheld the truth.
To be blunt - your post sounds like you met this woman on the net and you ended up leaving your wife for her only to find out she's married. Your post also sounds like you're in a state like SC, where you have to wait for 6 mos if its a grounds-based divorce. This one would probably qualify in SC under Adultery.
You ask if you should confront her or let it go -- confront her and let HER go. You gambled with a new relationship you found on the internet, used your marriage as collateral, and have lost everything. At least have enough self respect to admit your bad judgement and walk away from a woman who has used you. Your relationship with her is based on serious lies - how you could think she is worthy of respect, trust or forgiveness is beyond me.