| Drew |
| (old hand) |
| 08/06/07 03:07 PM |
Re: i really really need help with this!!!!!
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My x started a relationship all but immediately after she filed (almost 2 years ago) they were spending the night with each other etc. I met someone (14 months after) and we see each other regularly but no overnite or any pda especially around our children. She has 2 I have 3. In court my x denied any relations (I had video from my PD) and brought my "friend" to our final at my attorney's request.
The x tried to alledge all sorts of impropriety on my part and denied her own and ended up looking like a fool.
Honesty is the ONLY policy in the court room.
If you can prove with documentation that he had these affairs while you were still "together" and that your new relationship started well after the event (filing/seperation) then I would hope/think the judge would consider this. Our judge did.
Speak openly and honestly to your atty. about this.