| Rebecca5 |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 11/14/05 10:28 PM |
Re: I don't want him....so why am I so sad and angry?
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So...it seems like you weren't the only one who was ready to move on, maybe? It's great that he's making some changes in his life. Sometimes, it just takes the right "kick in the pants." He's not "replacing you," he's finding whatever he needs....maybe for the moment and maybe for longer. Who knows?
I also ended my marriage, so I get some of where you're coming from. My ex moved on...like lightening...lol. But really....rather than feeling like a scorned lover, I felt more like a disappointed mom. It took me a while to recognize that...and sometimes I still fall back into it....along the "What are you THINKING??" lines....but, thank God, he's not my problem any more.
I was a little slower to get back into the action, and had a share of "play mates," but I approached it with just that attitude....knowing that they weren't relationship material. Let me tell you....I found the real deal and have now been married for going on 3 years. Everything I was missing is here...so it does happen.