| mommaof4 |
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| 01/14/10 04:26 PM |
Re: Getting divorced after 11 years....
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The financial part of all of this is the SCARIEST part. I just don't know how I'm going to do it. I get very overwhelmed if I look ahead. so, I have been trying not to very much.
The future is scary when I look ahead and don't see him there with me, I'm sure that will pass. But it's still there lingering.
I haven't signed up for anything yet. BUT we have utilized the local food pantry. We just moved here in August, and to a BIGGER more EXPENSIVE house, because we wanted more children. So eventually this house will have to be sold, I can't afford the mortgage payments on my own. If he was so unhappy, why in the world did we buy this house and move here?!! This is all so crazy.
My lawyer finally said they are going to make the court date with out the responses, because i need some temporary orders for support to help me and the kids...& rumor has it that he IS working but for cash. He is such a different man, just insane....
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