| mommaof4 |
| (recently joined) |
| 01/26/10 07:40 PM |
Re: Getting divorced after 11 years....
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The not being interested in the kids,not wanting to see them, not talk to them, not miss them...not help support them....BOGGLES my mind. Once again STBX has went almost 2 weeks with NO contact and then texts me out of the blue (which annoys me, because he is OLD enough to call me), so I CALLED HIM back...i refuse to text him back. It's so silly. Anyway, he is planning on seeing the kids tomorrow night. Its extremely hard on the kids to see him only once in awhile. I think it would be better if he either becomes a REAL DAD or else drop out completely as to not hurt them anymore. I feel like I'm always making excuses for him to the kids and reminding them he loves them and reminding them 'none of this is your fault & it has NOTHING to do with anything any of you did'. I am cleaning up HIS mess....its not fair. When was it decided that he could be this selfish person and not have any consequences?! I didn't get input in that decision!!
Sorry for the vent...I'm just feeling bitter tonight. Trying to let it flow. I don't know why I have to accept the bad parenting from a spouse that already LEFT and made bad decisions. When is it his turn to face reality and accept some consequences for his actions?!
S