| MamaKitty |
| (Pooh-Bah) |
| 03/10/06 11:13 AM |
What I wanted to send
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Pretty sad that you have no problem offering to feed the cats and dogs.... that I have always taken care of anyway....nobody else who isn't contributing towards feeding the cats or dogs would make such an effort to 'feed' pets that the xspouse is already feeding... or would argue and continue after just being told that the cats had JUST been fed. It's manipulative.
But even months after you've left you haven't bothered to make any kind of arrangement towards supporting your kids...(even through your lawyer) for even temporary child support.... but you still expect to see the kids almost every day .And get threatening if you think you're being restricted....As if eight years worth of me living and taking care of the kids can be boiled down to just buying them gifts every time you see them. And after none years of being with me you have no clue how much anything costs, or which bills have had money to pay after the first week of January, and which ones we've had to skate on.
If you have no intention of working anything out between our lawyers, it would only be polite to let me know. If it's your intention to spend as much money as possible, even if it had been earmarked towards the bratties' education... again, please let me know.
For once, has to be clear and honest what the whole point is that you're doing... without any whitewashing about how much money it's using up, and how eventually it really is hurting the bratties.
Both of the bratties are not feeling well today. Again. I don't know of anyone else you'd be able to find to take care of them when they're sick for free... although I know you think I should just take care of everything and somehow take care of it all even when I'm sick at the same time. I do know for a fact that there is no hand-washing policy with you, so who knows where thay've picked up this latest thing.
I'll again spend the day feeding them soup and crackers, entertaining them... even though I've also gotten sick again... and hopefully have them well enough to do their 'baseball practices' and whatever during our agreed upon (if unrealistically stretched) visitation with both boys tomorrow.
It really is ridiculous for you to have acted all concerned and put out when I told you I'd just fed the cats, when you never took care of them before, and you haven't paid for the last 3 bags of their food- at the minimum. It's also pushing boundaries for you to be insisting on 'caring' for them when you haven't provided anything towards caring for the bratties.
Please talk it over with your lawyer, how to drag this out until May... because even though you can refuse to pay for anything until then, you can't force anyone to respect you for your decision to make this harder on me and the bratties until then. Over the years you have promised you'd take care of me and the bratties... to me, the bratties, friends, and even my family... so it's up to you if/when you want to just break all those promises.
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I will only respond to emails regarding if/when the bratties are going to be well enough to go to baseball practices tomorrow, and if we are well enough, we'll discuss whether I'll be bringing them or you'll be picking them up.
I accept the fact that youve hung us out to dry- but I still expect the most basic, minimal things regarding manners, even if child support isn't considered one of those things by you.
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