Thanx for your concerns. Do you think that some type of restraining order would be appropriate. You see, I don't believe my STBX has the ability to deal with this and do what needs to be done to protect her emotionally. He may not ever allow her to be alone with her grandfather. But just being around him at all is not in her best interest. Just today, I found out that he took her to grandfather's house to drop off another family member. He just doesn't have the sense to see how wrong that is. I put it to him like this, "If she was older and was raped by him, would you drive her to the place where she was raped?" He had no decent answer for this. Therefore, I need the grandfather to know that if HE is anywhere near her, that legal action will be taken. Plain and simple. I just wondered what is the best way to go about this considering that we are only separated and have not filed for divorce. How can I protect her between now and then? and Once I file, what action can be taken with her father if he does not do what is required of him to protect her? Oh, you asked about a grandmother. Well, he was married twice but divorced both times. I've only talked with exwife #1 about this and she admitted to me that there is definetly something wrong with him. Wife #2 has a daughter who was exposed to him as a child and has also accused him of these same issues. He is without a doubt disturbed.
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Re: I believe grandfather to be sexual predator.