And he wants ME to resolve these issues before he tries to come back
These are his issues not yours. Why should you take the blame or try to clean up after him. He's a grown man for Gods sake. HE'S the one who is going to have to make it right with the kids. And you wont be able to move pass this until HE takes responablity for HIS actions. HE cheated, HE tore the family apart, now HE has to be the one to fix it. If he can. It's going to take a lot of work on HIS part and if HE'S not willing to do that then boo hoo for him.
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