Just because you want to have him charged with adultery and disobeying the no contact order, it is up to his Commander to proceed. I guess the big question at this point is, did you get everything you wanted in the divorce, if so, as hard as it is to do, it would probably be best to just let it go. He made his decisions and he is one of the reasons soldiers have the reputation they do. Nothing you can do to him will make much difference unless you can reduce his pay, but who will suffer in the end, if he gets reduced, he could have the CS reduced, if he gets put out, there goes tricare for your child. If you just want to make him miserable, file another complaint with the IG after the baby is born and paternity is admitted. If you got part of his retirement in the settlement, he will paying the rest of his or your life so whats left to do to him. I know its hard, I was in the same boat as you and my anger ruled me for a long time and times it still does, but it gets easier.
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