| matart1 |
| (Carpal \'Tunnel) |
| 11/16/07 03:28 PM |
Re: Please help me
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My husband was stationed in Iraq for a year with the KY national guard and he has been home for almost 2 years now. The problem I am having is that he is now telling me that he wants a divorce and has openly admitted to being with another woman. I am not only his wife but the mother to his son and I have 2 kids from previous relationships.
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Should you receive custody of the child between you then he would be ordered to paychild support based upon the state guidelines for that 1 child.
I am wondering if he can be court martialed for violating the military code of good conduct.
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he can be brought up on charges of the UCMJ and the good news is is could mean reduction in rank and loss of pay but the important thing is is that he may be punished or nothing may happen because life goes on.
I am losing my mind. I can't eat and can't sleep. I have lost 8 pounds in a week and I feel like I am losing my mind.
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you are experiencing the agony of a failed marriage. it can lead to depression, anger, joy and a myriad of emotions.
Is there anything that I can do during the divorce precedings to get maximum financial help from him?
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you will need to go to court and get a temporary support order while you are filing for your divorce. you will receive a percentage of his pay. you will not receive the entire pay so you will need to understand that your standard of living will change.
I have no work experience and no one will hire me. I am going to need all the money I can get. Will he have to pay maintenance as I have not worked the entirety of our marriage? Please help.
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my stepson has no work experience and no education yet he managed to get a job at a grocery store.
you can get hired but you have to apply.
you also did not mention how long your marriage was..??
that may determine if you are eligible for support.
good luck.